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This is my interpretation on what it’s like to date or be in love with each of the signs. You can utilize this guide as a form of self-awareness & compassion when approaching courtship or intimate relationships.
It can also be utilized on how to love each of the signs according to their Sun or Venus Sign (or both, if ya know;)
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So, Aries! Aries are independent but also major lovers & tend to desire a lot of attention. But also a lot of space. This may sound like a total dichotomy and it is. Connecting with an Aries you’ve got to give them space to roam, but also feel safe & connected to. When this fascinating but sacred balance is achieved, an Aries will grant his or her love, charm & affections with pleasure. Aries so often want to feel free but also tended to, independent but also connected. Just a simple hello via text & loving, authentic compliments do wonders to help them feel seen, loved yet also free, which is when you receive the best of this fiery Mars ruled sign.
Taureans like concrete stability, sensuality & the finer things that life has to offer. The way to a Taurus’ heart circumvents around your willingness to show up consistently, romantically and genuinely. Taurus loves love & loves the courtship process. Key word: process. No need to rush this sign as this tends to send them into a tizzy & can typically bring out their stubborn side. With Taurus, love & sexuality is a dance, one that is best guided by the heart. Take your time & offer thoughtful deeds & gifts. (Taurus is ruled by Venus & an Earth sign, so romance + tangible thoughtful items are appreciated & seen as a grand gesture, even if the gift is simple in nature.)
A Gemini loves the intellectual stimulation that new love can bring. A Gemini loves to explore ideas of creativity, intellect, culture, current events etc. to keep a long standing connection fresh. Usually those with Gemini Sun of Gemini Venus need to be courted & swooned via original thought, engaging talk & intellectual capacity. Versatility tend to turn them on, they like when activities, sensuality & the like are diversified & adventurous. If you want to turn on the Gemini in your life consider adventure & contributing authentic ideas to your conversations and personal dynamic. This tends to keep the Gemini heart engaged as well as, grants a feeling of connection and support for their busy, creative minds.
Cancerians love to feel safe, connected to & held in a myriad of ways. Their sign rules the energy of emotionality & emotional depth and when they feel you can meet them there & not be afraid of what you feel, they are yours. Cancer energy is typically kind & considerate. They sense BS & inauthenticity easily, so best to keep with your inner work & follow your heart when you are interested in this Lunar ruled sign. Cancer’s tend to crave safety & emotional intimacy above all else. If they ever come off moody or imbalanced, it’s because they don’t feel safe or instinctually, they sense something isn’t true in the connection. Bring your best heart energy to the Cancer Woman or Man & don’t play games. You could meet a life long partner or at most, an incredible & loyal friend.
Leo’s rule the energy of the Heart. Leo’s love & appreciate being appreciated, seen & adored. Leo is the Lion, proud, strong & impactful in love as well as most other areas of their lives. To approach a Leo your heart needs to be strong & true. You also need to be willing to have a lot of fun, child-like adventuring in your courting plans with the Leo. Their hearts crave the spontaneity of being a kid again. They are a fire sign so their passions & energies can burn hot, yet a Leo is one of the most loyal signs when their heart is truly touched. If you want to approach this powerful lion or lioness, do so with fun, a great sense of humor & total authentic intentions.
Virgo energy tends to be exacting, meaning that when it comes to love & opening their heart, they are very particular. Courting or approaching a Virgo similar to any sign, typically takes patience, thoughtfulness & a true desire to understand them in a multifaceted way. Virgo’s are a unique dichotomy between earth energy (as they are an Earth sign, so this is all about patience, progress, materiality & natural forces) partnered with Air energy (which is intellect & being connected to & swooned via the mind with great conversation, intellect, etc.) A Virgo truly in love tends to be loyal & seeks to guide you on becoming the best version of yourself.
Libra rules the energy of Partnership in the Zodiac. Libran’s similar to their fellow Venus ruled sign Taurus, loves the romance & the finer things that life, love & courtship have to offer. A Libra can be connected to and even swooned by authentic romantic gestures & genuine connective conversation. Libra tends to love partnering & relationships as close connectivity are where they feel the most expressed and peaceful in their lives (especially in a healthy/connective partnership). Approach a Libra with thoughtfulness, whether it be a well-crafted text or a considerately planned romantic gesture or date.
Scorpio energy is passionate, powerful & connective in a deep way. Scorpio’s really don’t vibe with anything inauthentic, and they truly have a 6th sense for what feels truthfully aligned to their hearts desires. How to approach this power house of a sign? Knowing that the Scorpio isn’t down with superficiality, get to know them by asking thoughtful questions and truly listening to their answers. Getting close to a Scorpio can take time but once they feel your truth, they have so much love & power to share whether it be rich conversation or transformative sensuality.
Sagittarius energy in life & love tends to crave adventure & freedom rooted in a truthful connection. Sagittarius rules the concept of learning, growing & evolving so in their highest state, they tend to gravitate towards other souls that will offer them the opportunity to become their most expanded (& fun) expression of self. Sag’s are Jupiter ruled, Jupiter tends toward wisdom, evolution & all the good times life can muster up! Meet the Sagittarius with a light hearted vibe and a willingness to diversify your schedule & you may just be partnered with the love of your life.
Capricorn energy tends toward power, consistency, depth, truth & maturity. Capricorn’s show their love through consistent acts of thoughtfulness, kindness & dependability. They tend to appreciate those who do what they say & say what they mean. Superficiality to this Saturn ruled sign is simply a no-go. Capricorn’s tend to lead high stress lives because they put so much pressure on themselves to perform & get to the top of the proverbial mountain. In love they crave someone who can understand their multi-faceted desire for stability as well as lighten the load with laughter & authentic connection. Cap’s tend to gravitate to those who, like them, have learned to accept their power and use it wisely.
Aquarians tend to love freedom & friendship in their love affairs. As an Air sign much of their connectivity comes through the intellect: as in, great conversation, intellectual stimulation, spiritual similarities, a feeling of connectedness on causes in the world & a meeting of personal value systems. Aquarians can tend to guard themselves or seem quite aloof until they are sure that their heart & mind will meet a vantage point of bliss & connection in your dynamic. If not, they can tend to stay on their own and committed to causes or work that speaks to them as the traversing of the deep & powerful emotions in love can seem precarious and sometimes, overwhelming. Not to be taken personally as this is typically a decision made of logic and not, a judgement of your value or worth as a potential lover.
Pisces energy is often devoted, connective, empathic & emotionally rooted in a desire to be at one with whoever they are experiencing in love, intimacy or even friendship. Pisces tend to have high hopes & ideals when it comes to relationships and in order to connect with them you often need to honor their desire for deep connection & other worldly exchanges. The Piscean lover is just that, a lover. Approach them with sensitivity & a genuine desire to understand them emotionally. Pisces is a Neptune ruled sign, Neptune is the second farthest reaching planet of our solar system, filled with mystery and depth, and we are unable to witness it with the naked eye. Pisces can often display the same enigmatic, alluring & magical energy, be willing to meet them out beyond your comfort zone and you may just find your lover & partner for life.