Please enjoy this episode & I pray that this assists you if you have any trouble with your body image or food or know someone who is.
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This is my interpretation on what it’s like to date or be in love with each of the signs. You can utilize this guide as a form of self-awareness & compassion when approaching courtship or intimate relationships.
It can also be utilized on how to love each of the signs according to their Sun or Venus Sign (or both, if ya know;)
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So, Aries! Aries are independent but also major lovers & tend to desire a lot of attention. But also a lot of space. This may sound like a total dichotomy and it is. Connecting with an Aries you’ve got to give them space to roam, but also feel safe & connected to. When this fascinating but sacred balance is achieved, an Aries will grant his or her love, charm & affections with pleasure. Aries so often want to feel free but also tended to, independent but also connected. Just a simple hello via text & loving, authentic compliments do wonders to help them feel seen, loved yet also free, which is when you receive the best of this fiery Mars ruled sign.
Taureans like concrete stability, sensuality & the finer things that life has to offer. The way to a Taurus’ heart circumvents around your willingness to show up consistently, romantically and genuinely. Taurus loves love & loves the courtship process. Key word: process. No need to rush this sign as this tends to send them into a tizzy & can typically bring out their stubborn side. With Taurus, love & sexuality is a dance, one that is best guided by the heart. Take your time & offer thoughtful deeds & gifts. (Taurus is ruled by Venus & an Earth sign, so romance + tangible thoughtful items are appreciated & seen as a grand gesture, even if the gift is simple in nature.)
A Gemini loves the intellectual stimulation that new love can bring. A Gemini loves to explore ideas of creativity, intellect, culture, current events etc. to keep a long standing connection fresh. Usually those with Gemini Sun of Gemini Venus need to be courted & swooned via original thought, engaging talk & intellectual capacity. Versatility tend to turn them on, they like when activities, sensuality & the like are diversified & adventurous. If you want to turn on the Gemini in your life consider adventure & contributing authentic ideas to your conversations and personal dynamic. This tends to keep the Gemini heart engaged as well as, grants a feeling of connection and support for their busy, creative minds.
Cancerians love to feel safe, connected to & held in a myriad of ways. Their sign rules the energy of emotionality & emotional depth and when they feel you can meet them there & not be afraid of what you feel, they are yours. Cancer energy is typically kind & considerate. They sense BS & inauthenticity easily, so best to keep with your inner work & follow your heart when you are interested in this Lunar ruled sign. Cancer’s tend to crave safety & emotional intimacy above all else. If they ever come off moody or imbalanced, it’s because they don’t feel safe or instinctually, they sense something isn’t true in the connection. Bring your best heart energy to the Cancer Woman or Man & don’t play games. You could meet a life long partner or at most, an incredible & loyal friend.
Leo’s rule the energy of the Heart. Leo’s love & appreciate being appreciated, seen & adored. Leo is the Lion, proud, strong & impactful in love as well as most other areas of their lives. To approach a Leo your heart needs to be strong & true. You also need to be willing to have a lot of fun, child-like adventuring in your courting plans with the Leo. Their hearts crave the spontaneity of being a kid again. They are a fire sign so their passions & energies can burn hot, yet a Leo is one of the most loyal signs when their heart is truly touched. If you want to approach this powerful lion or lioness, do so with fun, a great sense of humor & total authentic intentions.
Virgo energy tends to be exacting, meaning that when it comes to love & opening their heart, they are very particular. Courting or approaching a Virgo similar to any sign, typically takes patience, thoughtfulness & a true desire to understand them in a multifaceted way. Virgo’s are a unique dichotomy between earth energy (as they are an Earth sign, so this is all about patience, progress, materiality & natural forces) partnered with Air energy (which is intellect & being connected to & swooned via the mind with great conversation, intellect, etc.) A Virgo truly in love tends to be loyal & seeks to guide you on becoming the best version of yourself.
Libra rules the energy of Partnership in the Zodiac. Libran’s similar to their fellow Venus ruled sign Taurus, loves the romance & the finer things that life, love & courtship have to offer. A Libra can be connected to and even swooned by authentic romantic gestures & genuine connective conversation. Libra tends to love partnering & relationships as close connectivity are where they feel the most expressed and peaceful in their lives (especially in a healthy/connective partnership). Approach a Libra with thoughtfulness, whether it be a well-crafted text or a considerately planned romantic gesture or date.
Scorpio energy is passionate, powerful & connective in a deep way. Scorpio’s really don’t vibe with anything inauthentic, and they truly have a 6th sense for what feels truthfully aligned to their hearts desires. How to approach this power house of a sign? Knowing that the Scorpio isn’t down with superficiality, get to know them by asking thoughtful questions and truly listening to their answers. Getting close to a Scorpio can take time but once they feel your truth, they have so much love & power to share whether it be rich conversation or transformative sensuality.
Sagittarius energy in life & love tends to crave adventure & freedom rooted in a truthful connection. Sagittarius rules the concept of learning, growing & evolving so in their highest state, they tend to gravitate towards other souls that will offer them the opportunity to become their most expanded (& fun) expression of self. Sag’s are Jupiter ruled, Jupiter tends toward wisdom, evolution & all the good times life can muster up! Meet the Sagittarius with a light hearted vibe and a willingness to diversify your schedule & you may just be partnered with the love of your life.
Capricorn energy tends toward power, consistency, depth, truth & maturity. Capricorn’s show their love through consistent acts of thoughtfulness, kindness & dependability. They tend to appreciate those who do what they say & say what they mean. Superficiality to this Saturn ruled sign is simply a no-go. Capricorn’s tend to lead high stress lives because they put so much pressure on themselves to perform & get to the top of the proverbial mountain. In love they crave someone who can understand their multi-faceted desire for stability as well as lighten the load with laughter & authentic connection. Cap’s tend to gravitate to those who, like them, have learned to accept their power and use it wisely.
Aquarians tend to love freedom & friendship in their love affairs. As an Air sign much of their connectivity comes through the intellect: as in, great conversation, intellectual stimulation, spiritual similarities, a feeling of connectedness on causes in the world & a meeting of personal value systems. Aquarians can tend to guard themselves or seem quite aloof until they are sure that their heart & mind will meet a vantage point of bliss & connection in your dynamic. If not, they can tend to stay on their own and committed to causes or work that speaks to them as the traversing of the deep & powerful emotions in love can seem precarious and sometimes, overwhelming. Not to be taken personally as this is typically a decision made of logic and not, a judgement of your value or worth as a potential lover.
Pisces energy is often devoted, connective, empathic & emotionally rooted in a desire to be at one with whoever they are experiencing in love, intimacy or even friendship. Pisces tend to have high hopes & ideals when it comes to relationships and in order to connect with them you often need to honor their desire for deep connection & other worldly exchanges. The Piscean lover is just that, a lover. Approach them with sensitivity & a genuine desire to understand them emotionally. Pisces is a Neptune ruled sign, Neptune is the second farthest reaching planet of our solar system, filled with mystery and depth, and we are unable to witness it with the naked eye. Pisces can often display the same enigmatic, alluring & magical energy, be willing to meet them out beyond your comfort zone and you may just find your lover & partner for life.
Hi beauties. I hope you enjoy this post on Empaths & the Empath / HSP Experience from my perspective.
Also, you can have a look at a past post I did on “What is an Empath + Suggested Reading for Empaths”:
Getting in flow with the Universe is actually EASY. It’s meant to be easy. Try these three simple steps anytime you feel your energy off kilter, you feel sad, down or in a life funk.
How to Get in Flow With The Universe in 3 Easy Steps
Smile - smiling raises our frequency, the Universe responds to frequency and vibration. If you are feeling down, be willing to sit with yourself for a moment, close your eyes, and let a smile move across your face. It may feel strange but it can shift your mood & energy almost instantly. Try this the next time you are feeling stuck or lonely.
Love Yourself, Love Your Body - We are spiritual beings having a human experience. Our body truly is our temple. When we ground & root ourselves in the body via exercise, movement & self-care, we raise our vibration. The Universe (in my opinion) as well as our Higher Self (our soul) deeply appreciates & honors us when we honor our bodies. Our physical vessels are sacred and they deserve love and respect. Our mood & energy instantly shifts when we are honoring our bodies with movement. Notice when you are consistent with loving yourself & moving your body, your whole perception of reality changes.
The Universe has an easier time getting into touch with you when you are feeling good in the totality of your physicality!
Get Present to the Moment - this is an exercise I have been utilizing with a lot of my clients lately. If you are feeling crappy, notice, notice that you are feeling down and a bit dampened. Take that as a signal from your soul that it needs you to get present to the moment, then try this:
touch something on your body, your clothing, your face, your hand, something to get you present to your body, your ability to feel textures & to connect to yourself
secondly, look around you and take in everything around you. what you’ll notice often times if you are existing, you are not present to the beautiful sounds, sights & energies all around you - take in every detail or everything, keep watch as the Universe reveals all the way it speaks with you. The Universe communicates to us most easily & readily when we are fully present to all that’s going on around us
third, take a deep breath in, notice smells, sensations as you orient yourself fully to the present moment.
Try these three steps consistently to feel the magical flow of being in touch & in tune with the Uni. When we remember how important our vibrational frequency is & keep in touch with Universal energy it really feels good, why? Because we are mind, body & spirit. Not just mind & body! These simply practices connect you to your soul quickly & easily. When we feel connected to our soul, we feel connected to the Universe & the Universe feels GOOD & MAGICAL!
Love you angels so much, I hope this helps!
love, Natalia xx
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Ok so first off, I know I haven’t spoken with you much about sex, orgasms or sexual energy. But in truth, I am an Aries and sexual energy is my bench mark. My sign is Mars ruled aka, A LOT of sexual vibes. I believe in the power of pleasure as self care, self respect and a space to create what you want in your Universe.
Have you ever heard of manifesting with your orgasms?
Do you know the power of taking yourself to a place of no thought?
What is the (or, a) spiritual perspective on orgasm and pleasure as an incarnate woman?
And how to tie this with Astrology?: Each and every sign has their own unique way of expressing their sexuality & sensuality, uniquely, beautifully & powerfully, no one sign is more sexual than the other, just a nota bene! ;)
First off, what the F is up with manifesting with your orgasms? Is that seriously a thing? YES. Ok, so WHY?
First off, orgasm as a woman is a deep release (as it is for everybody;) it taps us into our essential nature, into our totality, our goddess/god self, our truth.
Pleasure, beauty & totality ARE OUR BASIC NATURE.
Why does the orgasm feel SO GOOD? Because it reminds us of WHAT WE ARE INNATELY: LOVE, POWER, BEAUTY, TOTALITY.
Manifesting is all about calling in what you want from a space of NO THOUGHT, meaning, you can’t think, control & call the shots, MAGIC is created when we are in a space of surrender.
Orgasm = the ultimate surrender.
Want to manifest something or call it into your experience? The next time you pleasure yourself, do it with ritual, with awareness and as you release, bring the vision of what it is you are calling in, into your inner mind. May sound strange, but try it, manifesting & creating magic are all about utilizing the mind as a tool, and doing so in total surrender…
Have you ever tried to send the world loving, peaceful energy when you come?
You should try it.
Being that we are all collective and connective energy, we can create the life we want as well as save the world with the big O. AMAZING RIGHT? We are so magical!
As women, we all have a powerful Venusian energy inherent to us.
She is our power place, she is our space of authenticity, feminine power & creative energy. She is our guiding force and as you know, I have been talking and teaching so much more on the power of Venus recently because just this year did I finally come to understand the power of the feminine, pleasure & surrender in my own life.
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How does the Universe bring us more of what we want?
By acknowledging our greatness & our gratitudes.
I’ve really been exploring the energies of magnetism and receptivity lately. Like instead of nose to the grind stone, how about meditation with stones? :)
Why do we so rarely sit back and acknowledge all the work we have done?
Why do we expect ourselves to DO, DO & MORE DO, all the time?
Doing, action & forward movement are obviously paramount to an incredible life, but, we also truly need to practice the opposite side of the coin: receptivity and simply BEING.
We have to be poised to receive and the Universe can’t do that on our behalf if we’re thinking we need to be in constant motion at all times.
Here is a brief exercise i’d love for you to take a moment & try before the end of 2018.
Sit down where you won’t be disturbed for a moment.
Open up a document or get out a piece of blank paper.
And simply do this:
Write down everything you have achieved or experienced this year (that maybe you never thought you could or would do).
Points to keep in mind as you create your list:
Acknowledge your progress, talk to your soul & heart a moment, imagine ALL of the things you NEVER thought would happen, but did
Acknowledge the positive, empowering uplifting parts of your life
Acknowledge your Successes
Bask in this energy for a moment, really sit back and honor yourself
The reason this is also so powerful is, wherever there feel to be loop holes or empty spaces, you can begin to build your intentions for 2019!
Enjoy this process!
Feel into the power ONE YEAR CAN CREATE! Feel into the POWER OF YOU!
I am proud of you!
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Ok, so yay!
I always love to see an extremely positive aspect happening in the Cosmos, even though
I ALSO DEEPLY BELIEVE, we create our lives, our destiny, our experience, our energy.
Let’s think of it as a co-creative dance with the Universe so we can become our highest & best selves! :)
Shit has been real as of late. Venus Retrograde was INTENSE and offered a lot of deep work and she traversed through Scorpio, most likely making a tight conjunction to many of your guys’ (and mine) Natal Pluto placements if you were born between 1983-1995 making it EXTRA INTENSE in terms of letting shit go.
Then we headed right into a Mercury Retrograde which can be mentally stimulating & communication-ally challenging, all at once.
And to top it off 2018 has been a year of deep spiritual work.
As is always the case in School EARTH. We are here to evolve, grow & reach our high potential all while learning self love, kindness towards humanity & the attempt to have FUN while living in a reality of contrast.
It’s a pretty tall f*cking order, but we signed up for it :) hehe
I wanted to make a quick little guide on this lovely energetic day of Sun Conjunct Jupiter which is a WELCOME THANK YOU from us to the Universe as the energy is LIGHT, EXPANSIVE & BEAUTIFUL.
Sun = our awareness, positive energy, light, ego, our vitality
Jupiter = expansion, abundance, luck, fortune, optimism
So imagine! Those two lovely heavenly bodies sharing energy today! What does that mean for you?
Well just like Natal Chart Astrology I like to take a look at inception points as momentary opportunities to make an energetic impression in your Life & the Universe’s dance with YOU! AKA - Start the below practices today in building a life worth expanding, fortune & all around positive f*cking energy!
How to Rule at LIFE in 7 Easy Steps (go 1-7 like building blocks)
Invest in the Health of your Body - our BODY is our foundation, exercise, yoga, dance, get movement in regularly. We open ourselves up to our power by first tapping into this basic truth: our body is our temple, literally!
Honor your need for Pleasure, Sensuality & Creativity - creativity is a basic need. We are creative beings, we need little bits of connection & expression all of the time to feel vital and alive. Sensual & Sexual expression is also paramount, so whether you are giving that to yourself regularly or are in a partnership, you get the idea ;) And the better we feel in our body, the easier it is to express this second step because we aren’t distracted by feeling weird in our body, ya feel me?
Create your Life Purpose no matter how big or small - being in our power feels super good. Feeling like we can be OURSELVES is even better. This is what creates true happiness & fulfillment. Create or find what fills you up and gets you EXCITED about existing.
LOVE YOURSELF & LOVE OTHERS - Kindness towards yourself is a constant practice, the more we can love ourselves even through mistakes or low moments we create an energetic resonance that calls this in throughout our entire lives. Let other people love you, ask for what you need, be willing to meet yourself on a deeper emotional level by letting yourself FEEL. The more rooted you feel in Step 1, 2 & 3 - the easier this all is.
Speak your Needs, Ask For What You Really Want - Self Expression is vital to a healthy, powerful life. Simply ask for what you need or express your heart. The more awakened you are in Step 4, the easier self expression can be.
Work on Opening your Intuition - The more in tune we feel with our intuitive nature the more complete we feel. I like to think of our intuition as also tapping into our feminine faculties, allow time with or near water to honor this part of ourselves, our receptive state where information & inspiration flows freely to us.
Meditate, Have Some Sort of Spiritual Practice - tune into your soul & heart every day in some way. Whether it’s meditation, mirror work, Tai Chi, Yoga, affirmations, chanting, the list could go on forever. Make time for the holistic part of you which is having a relationship to your Spirit which is an expression of your totality, your relationship to the Universal OverSoul, your heart, ancestors, angels, ETC.
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Hi angels, this Podcast is quite a vulnerable share for me but one that I feel and know is deeply important.
Why am I so obsessed with Astrology? Because on a very real level, Astrology can help us understand our twists and turns, our darkness & our trouble with Life itself! When we understand ourselves we are so deeply powerful.
I’ve mentioned to you guys recently that I want to start talking with you more about love/relationships & money and I hope you are ok with that!
In this episode I cover the following:
How Understanding my Sensitivity (Venus in Pisces) has been a major triumph in guiding my Life Purpose & Path aka through my darkness I found my Light/Spiritual Purpose!
Healing my Abandonment Issues & Emotional Anxiety with EFT Tapping
I share my story of past drug addiction and major trouble in relationships via not fully understanding or embracing my sensitivity & unique Venus energy
What Venus in Pisces means for me and how through my story you can learn more about your unique Venus
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I hope to see you beauties tomorrow night & PLEASE enjoy this Episode and let me know what you thought of it! It will be up on iTunes very soon!
“If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period of time cease to react at all.”
― Yogi Bhajan
Everything stated here is reflective of my own perspectives & experiences around love, heartbreak & human sexuality. I also figured being that this is Scorpio Season, and Scorpio rules the genitals and sex, this as a good time to traverse this topic.
I deeply believe we are spiritual beings having a human experience and we are here to connect with one another to learn, grow & evolve into the highest and most powerful expressions of who we are: through the light and the dark.
Every person you have ever experienced in your life, including the ones you are experiencing now, you have called towards yourself perfectly. In some way or another, they are there to mirror aspects of you for the sake of evolution and growth. Everything comes down to perspective and if we are willing to see every being, even the ones we can’t stomach, as some aspect of us.
I preface this because I think it’s a key component in understanding the deeper essence around sex and relationships.
The realm of sexuality and relationships with men have been my deepest teachers, often times with a lot of pain, confusion and suffering involved in the mix. But, I was always willing to take accountability on some part of the dynamic as well as, be responsible for my own happiness and growth. This attitude is how I sit with all of you today, taking on the study of the mystical, personal development, astrology, tarot, spirituality, etc. etc. etc. these things were all catalyzed for me because of the pain and confusion i’ve experienced from sex and relationships. Hence, there is perfect order in everything, even the darkest darkest, leads you, to your light.
Relationships are mirrors and teachers and that’s it.
They are there to show you parts of yourself that you don’t exactly have to face when you are cruising solo. They are also there for mutual enrichment, love, joy and comfort. Relationships are contracted before you even get here - they are soul bonds and soul recognition. When you feel like you know and understand someone on a deep level even when you don’t know them very well, chances are you do know them very well, just not from this incarnation.
Some relationships are energetically meant to remain in our lives for a very long time, some are only meant for a very short time. This is all dependent on the energy and contract inherent in the bond between two beings, not one’s worth or value.
When something doesn’t work out with someone, don’t look at it as a question of your worth or their worth, it’s energy and it’s contract. Be willing to look at it as, our time is or was complete for now, what did I learn? What was I able to give? What can I take away from this experience with this being? Can I wish them love, peace & respect?
If you are having trouble healing or moving past something, try EFT Tapping.
Now onto sex, I look at sex in an interesting way. Sex is our experience of higher energy, we are beings of energy and whenever we merge with another persons body, not only does it feel physically good, it’s also because on the energetic soul level, we are remembering what we are: totality, total and complete energy. This is why being human can be so challenging sometimes because we are here to experience ourselves not only as singular, but also, dualistically. Do you catch what I am saying here? Hence, sex and the merging of two energy fields feels amazing because in essence, it reminds us of what we are.
Combining all the things I L O V E.
When you need a little reminder of your unique COSMIC BRILLIANCE.
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You are seriously one of the strongest of the signs. You are fierce, independent & powerful, yet also sensitive, charming & well meaning. Channel your innate strength & honor your power, you don’t need to cower, you don’t need to control who you are, simply love the brilliance of the beautiful space you embody in the world. You are enough & you are never too much. Trust yourself.
Sensuous, powerful, beautiful. You are patient and you show us how to hold our own in calling in what we want, which is so deeply admirable. Channel your Venus ruler on the days you feel depleted, give to yourself in any way that you can. You show the example of patience, perseverance and looking damn good while doing it.
Expressive & remarkable is the Gemini woman. Your ability to captivate with thought, word & mystery is similar to the energy of the Queen of Swords (the Queen of Queens) in the Tarot. Trust your ability to intuit versus second guessing what you know to be true. Ask questions, for help & nurturance when you need it. You show the example of ingenuity, style & uniqueness in all that you create, do & dream.
Nurturing, powerful, protective, beautiful. Cancer Woman, you are so deeply seen, needed & appreciated. Your energy is oceanic, mysterious yet powerful, awe-inspiring yet comforting. Accept your deep ability to feel so much. Honor the power of your emotions. Ask for guidance and acceptance from others, as you offer and give so much. You show us how to be in tune and in touch, know your sensitivity is your greatest gift.
Regal, powerful, strong, protective. Leo Woman you offer us so much optimism and hope, the same energy we’re able to tap into as children. You strength is unprecedented, it’s like you can channel great droves of remarkable wisdom & playfulness, few have access to as you do. Honor your need to ask for guidance or assistance, when necessary. The Universe wants to show up for you as much as you show up for it.
Creative, nurturing, remarkable. Virgo Woman, you are such a gift to the world and the people in your life. Your attention to beauty and detail remind others to seek solace in the moment, and the empowering practice of simply Being. You have a purity of spirit that can make the world feel harsh at times, ask for guidance and assistance when you need it. You are truly never alone. Time in nature is your solace, you are so loved, held & honored by All That Is. Thank you for reminding us of this truth.
Venus Herself. Your planetary ruler flows through your life seamlessly like a gentle breeze, you bring beauty to all that you do. Thank you for reminding us in the power of resilience and consistency. Remember to ask for help from others when you need it. Even though your solace is partnership, you can feel alone in your strength at times. Others want to guide and assist as much as you do to them. Your mark on life is beautiful, your kindness & loyalty is powerful. Thank you for inspiring.
Scorpio Woman, there is a power and a mystery to you that is truly remarkable. Do you know and remember your own strength even in times of challenge or burden? You can carry a weight inside that others want to assist with, you simply have to ask for help. Your energy is alluring, magnetic, empowering & penetrative. Remember & love the strength and space you hold.
Optimism incarnate, inspiration abounding. You are so illuminating Sagittarius Woman, thank you for inspiring & guiding with candor & empowerment. Do you know your own strength? You hold a unique balance of deep respect & love for humanity as well as the natural, mysteries of the Universe & World. Remember the power of the duality you hold. You are here to create change, never apologize for your strength.
Capricorn Woman: power, resilience, beauty & strength. You steadily rise to places with patience and perseverance and you inspire all of us on the way up. Very few know how deeply you feel, it’s ok to let that part of you show for it is what makes up so much of your beauty. Your ability to feel and still be powerful is what makes you so strong! You remind us to keep going, to not stop, that such incredible feats can be achieved by simply continuing. Thank you for being so amazing, carry on!
Aquarian Woman, intriguing, insightful, unique. You remind us the power and sanctity of simply being the totality of what is it we are! When you fully hold the uniqueness of you, you allow others to do the same. Your sign is ushering in a new time of inspiration and being in service to one another, you are a way-shower. Trust that you know, trust that you are worthy, know that the Universe will always guide you when you are simply willing to be, yourself.
Pisces Woman, feeling, mysterious, beautiful in her emotions. The world needs your sensitivity, the gateways to the Mystical and the magical! Thank you for reminding that there is depth in the world, that feeling is beautiful and that it is more than ok to be sensitive and powerful at the same time. You inspire with your creativity. Spend time near water when you batteries need to be re-charged, ask the beings in your life for guidance or assistance when you are feeling lost. Others want to show up and help you just as much as you help them.
A tangible, practical, quick P.Cast (Podcast:) on living like an Empowered Bad Ass, Self Aware Queen by being aware & IN LOVE with your Menstrual Cycle!
Babes, this is such an important topic to me. I see so many of my clients, friends & of course myself, so at odd, in judgment when we aren't performing at 100% top of the mountain, kicking ass every damn day.
That just isn't fair.
Our bodies and our physiology are unique to what is expected from us in society, we are Cyclical Beings, we are ever changing.
We are meant to have highs & lows, we are meant to imbibe the feelings of life.
Our Cycle, our ability to create life & beauty from our bodies, is what enables this deeper wisdom and awareness. It's something simply to be understood and honored in stead of judged and rejected.
So it starts with us and I hope this Podcast Episode helps. Please share this with your sister friends, young gals, etc. This is how we bring body awareness and shift the paradigm around our bodies and our menstruation.
In this Episode:
+ How to Easily Honor the 4 Phases of your Cycle
+ Why Our Bodies are Different & Why this is A Blessing
+ Our Cycles in sync with the Moon
+ The Balance of our Masculine & Feminine - how to use this awareness to basically be unstoppable
+ How Honoring our Cycles makes us EMPOWERED instead of depleted & judgmental
+ and of course, join me for my Women's Course where I go deeper into this! The LIVE Course begins Oct. 9th, 2018 & the Digital Course goes live tomorrow!
Reserve your Space: http://bit.ly/EMPOWEREDWOMENCOURSES
WOW. WHAT A WEEK.
It's so interesting because, as an Astrologer there are definitely times where I can guesstimate that an upcoming week will be fluid, or challenging, well to be so honest and vulnerable, I had a hunch that leading up to this Full Moon could be full-on, but I didn't expect it to be as full-on as it was!
Full Moon's are always about releasing what doesn't serve. The aspects guiding us up to this very beautifully aspected Full Moon in Pisces gave me a hunch that it could be A LOT, but I got a little thrown off because the actual aspects of the Full Moon were SO LOVELY. #DUALITY
We learn to grow. We suffer to know what happiness is. If we didn't know pain, we wouldn't know lightness of being.
Pisces energy circumvents around the Soul. It guides us home to the compassion of Spirit, the Universe and understanding ourselves from a holistic, esoteric & all encompassing way.
This Full Moon opposes the very reality driven, in the moment energy of Sun in Virgo (which we just entered into on Thursday!) and whatever fell into disarray this week was guiding us home into the Truth of Surrender to the Universe, which is what Pisces is all about.
I read in this amazing book I have called "Moon Power" that the Goddess Sedna rules over a Moon in Pisces. You can call upon Sedna when you are hurting or feeling the pangs of life deeply, she is a very compassionate & strong Goddess and rules over this Lunation.
I want you to do what you'd like with the following rituals, make them your own, be creative,
you can't do it wrong when you are coming from the heart.
What You'll Need:
Your Favorite Crystals - Make sure they aren't water soluble! I suggest Rose Quartz, Crystal Quartz (if bathing during the day), Selenite & Turquoise
Bath Salts - For cleansing old energy
Flowers - Make your space beautiful, you can put the flowers in you bath water or around the tub
Candles - Light a candle or a few around the tub, obviously be careful with the flame! Make your bath ceremonial
Sage and/or Palo Santo - Cleanse yourself before you get in, and wave a bit of smoke over the tub. You can leave it to burn out while you are bathing
Beautiful Music or Mantras - I love any and all Kundalini Mantras. You can google "Kundalini Mantra for _____" really anything! Healing your Heart, Prosperity, Clearing Energy, etc.
While You're In the Tub - do a bit of meditating, pamper yourself, read poetry or a book, leave your phone far away or off for a bit, just sit with your essence and Be.
When You're Complete drain the bath rub while you are still in it, envision whatever no longer serves you gently and gracefully leaving with the bath water. Send love & gratitude for the lessons and the energy you have traversed and for the cleansing power of Water.
Meditation for Release & Call In:
* Please be careful lighting things on fire! *
What You'll Need:
A Piece of Paper & Pen
A Large Glass Bowl
Flowers, Candles, Crystals, Tarot Cards - anything to beautify your surroundings and make the space feel sacred.
What You'll Do:
Sit down in your quiet, beautiful space where you won't be disturbed for a bit.
Sage or Palo Santo yourself & your little sacred space before you begin your ritual.
First, call upon your angels or your favorite Ascended Masters - I invoked Mother Mary, Quan Yin & Arc Angel Michael to be with me during my ritual. You literally can't do this wrong, just call upon your spiritual team for assistance and love as you move through and release whatever it is you don't need any longer.
Meditate and do some deep breathing for 5-18 minutes.
When you come out of your Meditation, with the Glass Bowl in Front of you - write down 5 things you are releasing with this Full Moon energy. Read them out loud. Carefully burn it in the bowl and light some sage after. Say Thank You.
After that, write down 6 things you are calling in to replace those energies - make these positive statements. Put this little list on your altar, or somewhere you can see it until the next New Moon (which will be in Virgo:)
You are welcome to pull a Tarot card or cards and do a little contemplation and gratitude work before you end your Ritual.
I also encourage having a little loving conversation with yourself to end the Ritual. Say Thank You to your guides and angels for their love, guidance & support always.
Honor the Work You have Done and So It IS!
Beautiful work, love you!
ALSO BABES, this will be the last week my Women's Empowerment Course will be on pre-sale for just $100 - it will go up to $220 next week! More info & purchase here:
Hey angels - so this is a super short & sweet post. Here are my all-time favorite books for spiritual empowerment & growth. love you guys so much, thank you for being so interested in my recommendations! Copy & paste into your browser to order via Amazon or directly from the Authors. Also please enjoy any of these in audio form, I order tons of books off of Audible & listen and learn while driving!
Natalia's Book Spiritual Book Rec.'s:
1. The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
This book began everything for me.. I haven't read it in over a decade, but the ideas & wisdom in this story began my spiritual journey.
2. Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsh
Second to Celestine Prophecy for me is Conversations with God. I remember reading two distinct parts of this book that literally catapulted my spiritual awakening when I was 19, no joke!!!!
3. Many Lives, Many Masters by Dr. Brian Weiss
If you know me, you know I am obsessed with Past Life Regression and past life wisdom in general.. I find it so incredibly empowering and fascinating to understand our souls are on this eternal journey together. Gives so much comfort.
4. Journey of Souls by Dr. Michael Newton
I read this book traveling through Europe, it's one of those books i've read probably 4x and given away every copy i've ever owned. This is an absolute must must must read, again brings so much comfort and illumination of the souls journey and the human experience.
5. The Alchemist by Paolo Coehlo
I have only listened to this in audio-book form and I re-listen every time I need to be reminded on the power, trust & faith it takes to walk a bigger path.
6. Shambhala - The Sacred Path of the Warrior by Chogyam Trungpa
This is a new book for me, but already i've wept 10x reading it. The reminders are paramount to living an intentional and peaceful life as a spiritual warrior.
7. You are a Bad Ass at Making Money by Jen Sciencero
This book is life changing. Jen has such an empowering and funny way talking about money, overcoming her own struggles in her finances as well as playing small in general. A must read, especially listen in audio form! Constant inspiration.
8. Secrets of a Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker
I have been reading this book off and on since I was about 24 and began my first business. As far as I am concerned it's one of the most spiritual books on this list.
9. The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need by Joanna Martine Woolfolk
Another new read for me -- but one of the most comprehensive and genius books on complete Astrology i've found thus far!
10. Love, Freedom, Aloneness by Osho
This book i've read off and on for many, many, many years. An empowering and interesting look in maintaining independence, strength and truly loving in intimate relationships. I've struggled with abandonment issues & co-dependency in the past and this book is definitely a tough but empowering read.
11. Men Don't Love Women Like You by G.L. Lambert
Another amazing book for Women - honoring our worth and feminine power within the realm of sexual relationships. My bestie Nikki turned me onto this- warning, it's very vulgar but it's hilarious. If you need a good kick in the ass to remember you are a fucking goddess, especially in relationships, then you should read this.
12. The Universe Has Your Back by Gabby Bernstein
My fave audiobook ever. I turn it on whenever I need a cosmic reminder because I know wherever it lands I am going to get incredibly inspired & a mega great download from Gabby!
13. Mala of the Heart - Edited by Ravi Nathwani & Kate Vogt
I almost burned my old house down (when living in Santa Monica...long story) and after 3 days of grieving I found this book of poems on the side of the street. No doubt God talking to me. Order this and be prepared to weep because it's so freaking beautiful.
14. The Science of Mind by Ernest Holmes
Another new read for me - but, this book inspires and empowers that we are creating are lives... insanely powerful and very intense, so be aware and maybe read the synopsis before you order. It's about 800+ pages.
15. Red Moon - Understanding & Using the Gifts of the Menstrual Cycle
As you guys know, I am going to be empowering you and myself to be more and more in flow with awareness of our menstrual cycles. This book catalyzed this journey for me, I haven't finished it but wanted to add it here anyway.
This Interview w/ mega amazing powerhouse (and one of my Coaching clients) Erin May Henry is truly the catalyst to me wanting to create the
Amazing how via conversations with others who empower and enrich us, we can become more clear.
This is truly one of my favorite interviews of all time, jam packed with a lot of powerful insight & inspiration on my journey as an Female Entrepreneur & how I personally brand myself.
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