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What is up with life purpose?
HOW DO WE CULTIVATE & CREATE A LIFE OF PURPOSE?!
It's such a buzzword but what are the energetic/spiritual how-to's!
I am going to share with you some really great and easy energy tools to tap into to explore life purpose in a way that you most likely never have before!
I am so happy to be back with you my beauties, and happy Libra Season!!
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Hi babes, so first off, please have fun with this!
This is my interpretation on what it’s like to date or be in love with each of the signs. You can utilize this guide as a form of self-awareness & compassion when approaching courtship or intimate relationships.
It can also be utilized on how to love each of the signs according to their Sun or Venus Sign (or both, if ya know;)
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So, Aries! Aries are independent but also major lovers & tend to desire a lot of attention. But also a lot of space. This may sound like a total dichotomy and it is. Connecting with an Aries you’ve got to give them space to roam, but also feel safe & connected to. When this fascinating but sacred balance is achieved, an Aries will grant his or her love, charm & affections with pleasure. Aries so often want to feel free but also tended to, independent but also connected. Just a simple hello via text & loving, authentic compliments do wonders to help them feel seen, loved yet also free, which is when you receive the best of this fiery Mars ruled sign.
Taureans like concrete stability, sensuality & the finer things that life has to offer. The way to a Taurus’ heart circumvents around your willingness to show up consistently, romantically and genuinely. Taurus loves love & loves the courtship process. Key word: process. No need to rush this sign as this tends to send them into a tizzy & can typically bring out their stubborn side. With Taurus, love & sexuality is a dance, one that is best guided by the heart. Take your time & offer thoughtful deeds & gifts. (Taurus is ruled by Venus & an Earth sign, so romance + tangible thoughtful items are appreciated & seen as a grand gesture, even if the gift is simple in nature.)
A Gemini loves the intellectual stimulation that new love can bring. A Gemini loves to explore ideas of creativity, intellect, culture, current events etc. to keep a long standing connection fresh. Usually those with Gemini Sun of Gemini Venus need to be courted & swooned via original thought, engaging talk & intellectual capacity. Versatility tend to turn them on, they like when activities, sensuality & the like are diversified & adventurous. If you want to turn on the Gemini in your life consider adventure & contributing authentic ideas to your conversations and personal dynamic. This tends to keep the Gemini heart engaged as well as, grants a feeling of connection and support for their busy, creative minds.
Cancerians love to feel safe, connected to & held in a myriad of ways. Their sign rules the energy of emotionality & emotional depth and when they feel you can meet them there & not be afraid of what you feel, they are yours. Cancer energy is typically kind & considerate. They sense BS & inauthenticity easily, so best to keep with your inner work & follow your heart when you are interested in this Lunar ruled sign. Cancer’s tend to crave safety & emotional intimacy above all else. If they ever come off moody or imbalanced, it’s because they don’t feel safe or instinctually, they sense something isn’t true in the connection. Bring your best heart energy to the Cancer Woman or Man & don’t play games. You could meet a life long partner or at most, an incredible & loyal friend.
Leo’s rule the energy of the Heart. Leo’s love & appreciate being appreciated, seen & adored. Leo is the Lion, proud, strong & impactful in love as well as most other areas of their lives. To approach a Leo your heart needs to be strong & true. You also need to be willing to have a lot of fun, child-like adventuring in your courting plans with the Leo. Their hearts crave the spontaneity of being a kid again. They are a fire sign so their passions & energies can burn hot, yet a Leo is one of the most loyal signs when their heart is truly touched. If you want to approach this powerful lion or lioness, do so with fun, a great sense of humor & total authentic intentions.
Virgo energy tends to be exacting, meaning that when it comes to love & opening their heart, they are very particular. Courting or approaching a Virgo similar to any sign, typically takes patience, thoughtfulness & a true desire to understand them in a multifaceted way. Virgo’s are a unique dichotomy between earth energy (as they are an Earth sign, so this is all about patience, progress, materiality & natural forces) partnered with Air energy (which is intellect & being connected to & swooned via the mind with great conversation, intellect, etc.) A Virgo truly in love tends to be loyal & seeks to guide you on becoming the best version of yourself.
Libra rules the energy of Partnership in the Zodiac. Libran’s similar to their fellow Venus ruled sign Taurus, loves the romance & the finer things that life, love & courtship have to offer. A Libra can be connected to and even swooned by authentic romantic gestures & genuine connective conversation. Libra tends to love partnering & relationships as close connectivity are where they feel the most expressed and peaceful in their lives (especially in a healthy/connective partnership). Approach a Libra with thoughtfulness, whether it be a well-crafted text or a considerately planned romantic gesture or date.
Scorpio energy is passionate, powerful & connective in a deep way. Scorpio’s really don’t vibe with anything inauthentic, and they truly have a 6th sense for what feels truthfully aligned to their hearts desires. How to approach this power house of a sign? Knowing that the Scorpio isn’t down with superficiality, get to know them by asking thoughtful questions and truly listening to their answers. Getting close to a Scorpio can take time but once they feel your truth, they have so much love & power to share whether it be rich conversation or transformative sensuality.
Sagittarius energy in life & love tends to crave adventure & freedom rooted in a truthful connection. Sagittarius rules the concept of learning, growing & evolving so in their highest state, they tend to gravitate towards other souls that will offer them the opportunity to become their most expanded (& fun) expression of self. Sag’s are Jupiter ruled, Jupiter tends toward wisdom, evolution & all the good times life can muster up! Meet the Sagittarius with a light hearted vibe and a willingness to diversify your schedule & you may just be partnered with the love of your life.
Capricorn energy tends toward power, consistency, depth, truth & maturity. Capricorn’s show their love through consistent acts of thoughtfulness, kindness & dependability. They tend to appreciate those who do what they say & say what they mean. Superficiality to this Saturn ruled sign is simply a no-go. Capricorn’s tend to lead high stress lives because they put so much pressure on themselves to perform & get to the top of the proverbial mountain. In love they crave someone who can understand their multi-faceted desire for stability as well as lighten the load with laughter & authentic connection. Cap’s tend to gravitate to those who, like them, have learned to accept their power and use it wisely.
Aquarians tend to love freedom & friendship in their love affairs. As an Air sign much of their connectivity comes through the intellect: as in, great conversation, intellectual stimulation, spiritual similarities, a feeling of connectedness on causes in the world & a meeting of personal value systems. Aquarians can tend to guard themselves or seem quite aloof until they are sure that their heart & mind will meet a vantage point of bliss & connection in your dynamic. If not, they can tend to stay on their own and committed to causes or work that speaks to them as the traversing of the deep & powerful emotions in love can seem precarious and sometimes, overwhelming. Not to be taken personally as this is typically a decision made of logic and not, a judgement of your value or worth as a potential lover.
Pisces energy is often devoted, connective, empathic & emotionally rooted in a desire to be at one with whoever they are experiencing in love, intimacy or even friendship. Pisces tend to have high hopes & ideals when it comes to relationships and in order to connect with them you often need to honor their desire for deep connection & other worldly exchanges. The Piscean lover is just that, a lover. Approach them with sensitivity & a genuine desire to understand them emotionally. Pisces is a Neptune ruled sign, Neptune is the second farthest reaching planet of our solar system, filled with mystery and depth, and we are unable to witness it with the naked eye. Pisces can often display the same enigmatic, alluring & magical energy, be willing to meet them out beyond your comfort zone and you may just find your lover & partner for life.
WELL FIRST OFF! HELLO!
It’s been such a long time since I have done a written post and gosh does it FEEL SO GOOD!
It’s a Libra New Moon tomorrow 9/28/19 @ 11:26am PST and as many of you know, I absolutely LOVE to guide you on ways and means to manifest around the New Moon.
The energy is so fresh & so clean, it’s a space for getting clear on our intentions & moving forward in life with clarity. And another reason I LOVE ASTROLOGY AS EMPOWERMENT - it gives us themes and ideas that our consciousness can focus on, and we can really cultivate aims to improve those areas of our lives!
So what is up with Libra Season?
Libra energy rules the vibe of relationships (where as her opposite Aries rules the energy of the individual).
As we traverse Libra Season we have an opportunity to focus on harmony, love & balance with all things love, relationships, friendships & partnerships of all kinds.
But there is something super powerful about taking into account oppositions & integrations in Astrology: the success of an already great relationship & manifesting a wonderful & aligned partnership requires the health of the individual. Aka: two people who feel strong, healthy & whole as individuals create a really incredible partnership! And when you are seeking to call in an incredible relationship you really must be at peace & happy on your own so you’re not waiting for someone else to complete your happiness loop.
SO we really get to balance & integrate the Libra & Aries theme’s here!
I’m not sure if any of you got to listen to Mick and I’s Podcast on How We Met, Dating & the Energetics of where we were when we manifested each other?! If not, it’s here:
A major sentiment we both expressed is that:
We were really truly at peace on our own (Aries energy)
We were both authentically at peace that maybe we just weren’t going to meet “our person” - this is the energetics of SURRENDER!
When we are striving for someone or something to complete our happiness loop we often man-ifest unhealthy dynamics to get us back to the Truth that we are all that we truly need and that every relationship is a mirror to our current beliefs about what is possible in life & love.
So basically, if you want to change the feedback you are receiving whether from being single or in a relationship, you have got to shift the frequency transmitter (aka, YOU💖)
“Transform yourself & you will transform the world around you.”
—Check in with yourself for a moment—
How do you relationships FEEL right now? How do you FEEL right now? What are you seeking to call in whether single or partnered?
I beckon with the word FEEL simply because Libra energy can get very intellectualizing because of it’s Air Sign qualities and often times when we sit with ourselves, take a deep breath and close our eyes we can really take in the truth of where a certain part of our life is at.
✨—SELF LOVE RITUAL—💞
This Sacred Space that you are carving out is meant to heighten your frequency and connect you to the love & power that exists within you, effortlessly creating magnetism that is aligned to love.
Create a sacred space where you will not be bothered. You can do this somewhere in your home, or go out into a safe, quiet place in Nature.
Take a bath or shower prior just to clean your body & clear your energy field.
Grab your favorite crystals, a notebook and some beautiful markers or pens, a beautiful blanket and/or pillow, dress in a color that makes you feel most connected to your goddess power & feminine energy.
Once you get settled and set up in your Sacred Space, begin with this Golden Goddess Meditation:
5. As you come out of the Meditation write down any insights you received or visions that came through strongly: especially note, how did you appear as a golden, magnetic goddess?
6. Continue journaling, write down:
What am I seeking to call in right now with love & partnership?
What do I truly want in a relationship?
How do I want to feel in my relationship (this applies whether you are single/manifesting or currently in a relationship)
How do me & my partner want to create positive impact in one another’s lives & the world around us?
Who do I want to show up as in this relationship? (i.e. loving, more patient, generous, etc.)
7. Now, grab your crystals & sit to meditate & visualize in whatever position is most comfortable for you, you are welcome to lay down if you’d like as well as turn on some beautiful music (My SPIRITUAL AF PLAYLIST is great for rituals like this).
Before you begin take about 10-20 DEEP breaths in, breathing in through the nose & out through the mouth, just get yourself calm, centered & relaxed. Let the world go and allow this space to be just for you.
8. Then as you begin to meditate, focus your eyes as your 3rd eye (eyes closed, gazing at the space between the eyebrows),
continue to breath and allow yourself to visualize EVERYTHING you just wrote down.
You are welcome to gently open your eyes and look at what you wrote, then, create a picture of it in your mind.
9. After you are complete with your visualization — lay and listen to a full, beautiful song, just letting your body relax and be.
10. Close out your ritual by writing down 33 things you are deeply grateful for in your life NOW. If you are single, all the things you love & appreciate about your space with yourself, if partnered, all the things you love & appreciate being in a relationship.
11. End your ritual by bowing to each direction and saying thank you to the Earth & the Universe for guiding your life. Close our the ritual with a deep thank you, outloud.
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And we are BACK with another amazing Q&A Episode!!!!
We cover everything from healthy female friends to do I have what it takes to become a Coach? + What is up with Mars in Virgo & how do I make peace with my period!?
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Where Soul Meets Body - that is the essence of this beautiful yet powerful and maybe even emotional FULL MOON IN PISCES!
I move through an epic Tarot card Pull for you (and give you my fave Tarot card book that I learned the Tarot from!) and recommend 3 incredible crystals for grounding your emotionality! Links for the crystals are below!
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Lepidolite crystal: https://www.energymuse.com/lepidolite-crystal.html
Black Obsidian crystal: https://www.energymuse.com/black-obsidian-stone.html
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I absolutely LOVE CRYSTALS. And I love learning about them.
In a past life (meaning, in my twenties) I did jewelry for nearly a decade, this opened up my obsession and long term relationship with the crystal kingdom.
Madison Young, a Virgo, is the beauty and brains behind LA's stunning, minimalistic crystal shop, Open Eye Crystals on W. Pico & La Cienega (6110 W. Pico Blvd, Los Angeles if you want to go pay her a visit!)
We talk ALL THINGS CRYSTALS:
+ how to use them
+ crystals best for everything from anxiety to abundance & manifesting
+ being grounded to actually help the crystals work for you
+ letting go of spiritual elitism & being of service to those around you
+ what it was like for Madison to open up her first crystal store ever
+ we move through the chakras and Madison gives us epic crystal recommendations for each chakra
+ the best crystals to sleep with!
+ how to choose a crystal or let it "choose" you (aka, everything to do with your intuition!)
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You've got to start ignoring social media if it makes you feel like shit about where you are in your process.
The truth is: building something of note in this world takes time, thought, integrity and a little something called: work.
I get it, so many talk about working smarter not harder. I am not sure I can agree. I have seen this countlessly not only in my own life, but in some of the most successful & fulfilled humans I know: work feels good, work is important, and work is what builds big fucking dreams.
Stop trying to avoid work, stop trying to cut corners, stop using people, their contacts, "networking", hustling, and exhausting yourself with thinking about how you're going to do it easiest, versus, simply, just doing what it takes.
Doing what it takes: putting in the love, the heart, the work, the time & the trust in the process and the Universe.
IT'S NOT WOO WOO, IT'S WORK ETHIC. My Grandpa used to say: "the harder I work, the luckier I get."
Some may disagree with me here and that's ok. All are entitled to their own perspective on the life experience.
I pray you enjoy this episode and take something from it to simply be patient and integrous with your own process of building and becoming.
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You babes asked for this episode so we did it!!!
Mick is my love and wonderful Capricorn boyfriend ... in this episode, we get to chat together (and be extra silly and weird....😂) about all things:
how we met and how we both "knew"
our spiritual practices that help make our relationship really beautiful
some excellent insights for my babes single & calling in love
some great insights for couples or those wanting to deepen partnership
what a "spiritual" relationship feels like
how taking care of yourself is the basis for an incredible relationship
Mick touches the importance of a morning practice
how being authentic is the key to calling in a great partnership
"If he doesn't text you within 24 hrs. after a date - move on"
men allowing women to be POWERFUL, not being threatened
women's emotional/intuitive communication vs. men's logical
I talk about Mick being a Capricorn + his 12th House
"allow the guy to text you first" - Mick
when it's your person it just fucking FLOWS, they show up, you show up, there will be no QUESTION.